Forget 50 Shades of Grey, they are just like John Snow – they know nothing. A real kinky master does not start with this stupid book, but rather with his imagination. Sex is a game where a real player uses bondage gear all the way to multiple orgasms – yeah baby, it can be done. In this article, we will go through several helpful steps on how to take the sexual desire to a do me again level. Scratch that. Do me all the time. Introducing something daring and fun in the bedroom can in fact return the spark you have been searching for.
A lot of couple therapists recommend using bondage gear so couples would not get bored in their sexual encounters. However, introducing kinky gear into couple’s sexual games is easier said than done. Many people were raised in a conservative religious environment, where sexual desires are considered wrong and degrading and this is what took its toll and created the psychological fear that stands in the way between you and awesome sex.
If you are ready to bond with your kinky side and your partner once again, read on and get a grip on our tips about the best types of bondage gear that is designed to send shivers down your spine and guarantee good times (if you know what’s on my mind).
PADDED LEATHER BLINDFOLD
Inexperienced players think that the sexual pleasure is one dimensional experience – and they are dead wrong. In fact, when the eyesight is hindered, our brain intensifies all our other senses and compensates through boosting the sensory receptors, thus increasing the sensitivity to sound, touch and vibrations. A padded leather is the perfect way to achieve that goal. You can easily tease your partner and she will experience goose bumps all the time. Tease her fiercely with sensory objects such as your tongue or other sex toys (dildo or a whip).
BONDAGE WHIP
Trying sadomasochism has helped people get aroused faster than before and experience the best sex ever! Maybe it is psihological, but geting whipped arouses both men and women. A good bondage whip is designed with a great glass handle or it can feature a leather one (for those who like their whips even sexier)! Remember not to rush, enjoy the satisfaction of every moment and take turns with your partner, let her also have control over the whip. The power this toy gives you will make the sexual pleasyre more intese and long lasting!
NIPPLE CLIPS
The nipples are an incredibly sensitive erogen zone, especially for women (man are not excluded thought), yet a lot of people have not tried this guilty pleasure. Just by attaching nipple clips on your or your partner’s body, you will get double pleasure – the slightly painful experience will help acheive this. Just place the soft rubber on the nipples and slide it until you feel the pinching sensation. Your sex drive will go from low to wow!